I am 6′7 single and very normal .Average looking and very single .Age 25.Would love to know more .

Hi Jodi,
I hope that you will read this message.I am agree to see that i am not the only tall woman who is dissapointed by the joerg’s tall woman site.
We are not object,of course and no animals anyways!
I understand your feeling because i have to admitt that it is normal for a woman to search a taller man!
I am 6′8 tall dutch woman who lives in paris .Here average height of men is about 5′7,and french people are with portugese the smallest european population.(In netherlands,average woman height is 5′9!)
Since 1996,date of my entering into france,i am single.
But all the days,in the supermarket,inside metro,bus,shop,cinema…,i am boried by short french guy who want to date me!
I just simply can’t understand what type of pleasure can have a man to go out with a lady three height taller!
It is just crazy and even if i will be payed one million dollars,i can’t imagine myself with a man who has his head levels with my bellybuttom!
I hope to read you soon and just heard me,don’t take importance of this type of site.
The only reason i have seen this site was to find a good shop for clothes.(i hope that my english is understandable!)
bye
ps:message for all short guy who will want to mail me.I will give no answer of course!
filke

iam looking for tallgirl who taller than6′2″
myself 5′7″
thanks
i am waiting

It’s always a very delicate subject when people’s preferences are involved. I definitively see your point that it’s nothing fun to be considered as a pure object of sexual fantasy… even more so when some people become very insistant about it.

Your life experience is probably not helping you either, tall men being in short supply (pardon the pun!) it makes the dating game even more challenging for you. And I can see that after so many strange requests, you’ve had it with them.

I must confess that it is true that a lot of men tends to have a way of objectifying a woman for her physical appearance, and it seems to be part of our nature. However for the most part, this phase will only last for a certain time, usually the time to discover and be interested by her personality. After all, it only takes 10 seconds to judge one’s physical appearance, but many many months to gauge one’s personality.

On the other hand you should take this into consideration:

1) Tall is an attractive attribute (no shit!)
This means that you will get men’s attention, REGARDLESS of their height. If you were to run some stastistical analysis on all the people that come to you, you’d probably see it simply follows the general population’ height. You simply tend to remember more the shorter ones, because you find those situation grotesque.

2) Society has a negative bias towards couple where men is shorter.
Nothing we can do about it. I’ve seen countless of couples where the guy is 6′+ and the woman around 5′. These women aren’t labeled as freaks or weird, nor are the guys. I haven’t seen a lot of the opposite. Of this we can have some conclusions (sorta going back to the old nature/nurture debate):
2 a) Like it or not, social acceptance will sometimes influence our tastes, and it is not socially acceptable for a woman to date a men which is much shorter.
and/or
2 b) Women naturally have a tendency to prefer taller mates (genetics?)

3) Personal preferences are an inalienable right
You should never be questionned on your preference for wanting a man near your height. The corrolary is that you should not question their taste either.

That was just my thoughts on the subject.

Tall women like Jodi are frustrated, pathatic people, who only feel sorry for themselves.

As if height would be different than carracter
hair collor or anything else.

It’s not.. that they had a problem with their height, their loss. These kind of tall women belong in a mental institude. Sicko’s

Jodi, honestly I disagree with you . Frankly I am happy that someone can cherish tall women. I am a 17 year old high school senior who has been tormented because I am 6 foot 1. I appreciate Joerg’s website, because he takes the time out to recognize tall women as human beings and doesn’t think were “amazon freaks of nature” like most men and women. I don’t see anything wrong with him giving praise to us. I never have people respect me because I am tall they just usually look at me in disgust. His site gives me confidence in my self and furthur lets me know that I am not alone in the world of tall women.

Jodi, as a 6-2 tall woman, I can commiserate with some of your concerns.

Though I have had an active romantic life since my teens, I have never seriously dated anyone who was my height or taller. My last boyfriend, my fiance, was 5-7 and I never sensed that he thought I was attractive merely because I was tall. Instead he fell for me because I was fun, smart, sexy and caring. Too bad he wasn’t any of those.

In any event, since he and I broke up 10 months ago I have fallen into a dating drought. All of a sudden the only men I seem to meet want to date me specifically because I am tall and, they hope, will dominate them in some way. Yes, they want to be my slave, carried, looked down upon, babied, beaten or worse. I wonder if part of this is because I am now firmly entrenched in my 40’s (43) and no longer seen as desirable by “normal” men. Having moved “down” the attractability ladder, am I only desired and acceptable to these fetishists? If so, this sort of objectification does not bode well for my future.

The one positive seems to revolve around sports. Yes, sports. As a 6-1 tall teenager I was marked by coaches as a future basketball phenom. Of course I was well aware what it was really like to be a tall girl and sports, in my view, just made me less of a woman and more of a freak. So of course their drive and attention pushed me even further away from athletic participation of any sort. As such, I avoided sports until just last year, when I began playing softball and basketball at the careful encouragement of some real friends. Wow - what fun that was! All of a sudden my natural athleticism and height advantage were something I could value. Best of all, I started to encounter lots of tall women, women 5-10 and up, who have found respect and appreciation as women as well as athletes. Though I am still a novice at both sports I am progressing rapidly and want to thank those amazing tall women who sensitively and respectfully urged me to finally “come out and play” with them.

If I’m 5′5″ I’m lucky, but I only seem to meet tall girls. It’s not that I look for that, it seems that those are the only women attracted to me. Interestingly enough, most of them are models, gifted not only with great physical beauty, but also with inner beauty. The woman I have been with for the past 3 years is a 6′2″ model/cover girl, and to be honest it’s hard for me. It doesn’t feel strange at all when we’re alone, and when we’re intimate. She’s so incredibly beautiful that it’s like making love to a work of art. I just hate looking at us in a mirror. I know I should be proud that she chooses me, when she could have anyone she wants, but sometimes it makes me sad.

Jodi is frustrated of course,she didnt say there is something wrong with short guys…she only said she doesnt feel comfortable anymore being always bigger than a man!I am 6′3″ tall woman and I dated several men smaller than me.Trust me it is not the same.Woman has to feel protected in the arms of a man,to feel small…a woman.Andon the other hand a man needs to be a man!I love big hands for example,strange maybe.
Jodi,you shoul maybe visit some basketball or volleybal games to find a tall man,they are also looking for a tall woman!!!Jodi’s letter as I see is two years old so my message is tto late?!

sorry for my not very good “speeling”

I have to say that I prefer tall women but only will go antil my hight or a littel more, because I can not tolerate the way people look at one .That just creeps me out. here are few reason melikeing tall grils.

1 because I belive that hight is like a mac-glass it helps to increase beauty or not.

2 and most important i prefer tall girl because if a tall girl goes out with a sorter guy. That tells a lot about her. Firt of all tells me that she does not like the guy just because his superior than her in some way. This is very important because I belive that girls that like taller guys, likes also guys that are in any way superior than them. For example have more money tham them, more inteligence etc. I like a gril that likes me for who a I am and not my genetic attributes that make me superior tham them in some way. I untherstand this atitude caming form grils becuase its there nature but truly i am not here too play darwing I just want a girl that “just likes me” an that is very dificult to find becuase people are very confuse now a day. They truly think they are one way and they dont know, they are the other. I think going for taller girls is nice sort cut to see how girls realy are.

for example i think that josh likes guys that are inteligent and probably have a good financial situation and probably also likes beaning pamper but that is not a must for her, I THINK. I can infer all that from the what she sead here “of course i’d prefer they were taller. . . but that usually doesn’t happen”. and because of that I think also that she is a tolerant person.

It seems to me that taller women like us shorter men more than shorter women do. These shorter women, the majority of the time, like men about 6′0″. I don’t care about height in a woman, I like them all. But if I can only get a taller woman, so be it!

I can understand both sides because I have a friend that will only date women that are extremely beautiful. It is unfortunate that those women are also in short or should I have said limited supply. He will go dateless for months on end until he finds a beauty. For him height is not a concideration only looks. What this says about someone I don’t know. He would give you the shirt off his back but he won’t give a woman the time of day unless she is beautiful. Maybe thats Joerg’s deal, at first I thought his site was neat, but he reminds me of my buddy. We all fit into some category Tall, short; rich, poor; smart, not smart; the list could go on and on. Don’t forget standing out in a crowd is not a bad thing; it’s what most of us aspire to do. Even though standing out all the time can lead to some less than pleasant experiences. So remember experience is not what happens to you. It’s what you do with what happens to you. Just live your life and be glad that there’s something about you that someone else likes.

A reading from the Gospel according to Saint Mix-A-Lot;

“I like big butts, and I cannot lie.
All you other Brothers can’t deny:
That when a girl walks in with an itty-bitty waist
and that round thing in your face;

You get sprung.

(You) Wanna roll up tough
because you noticed that butt was stuffed.
Deep in the jeans she’s wearing,
I’m hooked and I can’t stop staring.
Oh baby! I wanna get wid’cha
and take your picture.
My Home-Boys tried to warn me,
but that butt you got makes

ME SO HORNY.”

As Mix-A-Lot has clearly stated, his preference is for members of the fairer sex with prodigious amounds of glutenous endowment. But no matter what his preference would have been in this Gospel, he shows us that his feelings, his desires are all-consuming. He shows us, that as humans, we’re driven by these desires. He even goes on later to say:

“So your Girlfriend rolls a Honda,
playing workout tapes by Fonda.
But Fonda ain’t got no motor in the back of her Honda.

My anaconda don’t want none
unless you got buns, hun.”

Meaning that unless the object of his desire has the traits he was “sprung” on, then said desire would greatly diminish.

Perhaps we can all learn from this. That our desires are strong, and that we are human. But we also know how strong our will to overcome is, and perhaps, once we recognize our desires for what they are, we all can look past our own inner “anaconda” and see into the souls of the people that we have overlooked.

This is the word of Mix-A-Lot. Word to your Mother.

I am a 6′3″ junior. I hate it. Although my school has many tall people they are usually guys and the girls that are considered tall might reach 6ft but I doubt it. I have always been singled out from everyone since grade school. I’ve always been the tallest girl and it sucks. People find me very abnormal because on top of being extremly tall I don’t play basketball and I usually go for older guys (because they tend to be taller). They don’t like it. They want every tall girl to play basketball and they want everyone that is an upperclassman to date another upperclassman. No one admires me for being an amazon they only hate me for it.

I am 32, 5ft9 and in shape, and I love tall women! Its not a fetish or anything like that–not at all. You see I love all women. I also love women who are shorter than me. The point is that a lady is a lady and should not be made to feel there is something wrong with her–men like us just know that and like to express it. But I like women weather they are taller or shorter on the basis of what they are like –thats the most important.
Once you’ve met alot of people you quickly realize that in addition to attraction you need the other person to be a decent woman.
Anyway I am a European male living in Toronto, Canada and I find that in Europe (especially the MEditerranean countries) the height of a woman is not a big deal –you approach a single woman who is tall the same way you would approach any woman –with kindness.
Not to sound like I hate North American culture but I find people in Canada and US are really stuck up on height (and in the socalled ‘battle of the sexes’). This is tres stupid. And if you are a tall woman –dont feel like there is something wrong with you –your beautiful and Im not just saying that. God doesnt make mistakes. Enjoy life. (Oh and I dont give a second thought to what ’society’ finds acceptable–if I find the woman I want to marry and she happens to be taller than me –do you think I would let the stupid society tell me who I can and cannot be with? You know where they can go!)
No you must enjoy your life.
Sit in the sun drink a little wine, be with your friends. If you dont find yourself under the Spanish sun or on a Greek Island or a Italian cafe or a Portuguese beach –let that type of lifestyle live within you. I love America but sorry folks people in the West (except maybe California!) are waaaaaaaaaay to uptight, stressed and are ruled by little societal ‘rules’ that have nothing to do with common sense.

Caio.
George

I am a 6′2″ male, and I used to feel instinctively uncomfortable running into women taller than me. But I began wondering why that was and figured out it had something to do with my “male superiority” being threatened. It was something I had taken too much for granted. I started thinking that I wasn’t much of a man after all if I kept on like that. Is a woman a woman only when she’s small, weak and unprotected. Or is a woman something else, my eternal other half, whose spiritual qualities are, in the end, what attract me to her?
And, if I wanted to conquer such a woman, would I not have to be a strong personality, and not just a strong body? Was this what I was afraid of? The problem was, obviously, with me. When I realized that, I realized I had to start working on myself even more.
So, thank you all you very tall women, for reminding me of something very important.
I made acquaintance with a woman 6′8″, and found she was a very nice person. I did not mind looking up at her when talking.
The tallest woman I’ve ever seen, I came up just below her shoulder. It was an amazing feeling. Had I thought her attractive, however, I would have approached her.
I felt badly for an older woman who came into the elevator in which I was riding, alone. She leaned back against the wall as soon as she saw me, but could still not make herself as “short” as me. I thought, she had a problem similar to the one I used to have. I just smiled at her as she stepped out.
Why make yourself small for small people? And why explain yourself to them?
All the best,
Alex

Zett,
I just read your message. I hope the shorter guy you were falling for approached you.
And Filke, this is exactly it - you may reject out of hand the notion of being with a shorter man - unless you saw one and just knew that he was the one, no matter what his size.
If you have closed your mind and emotions to that possibility, then you are indeed limiting yourself.

Maybe, Jesu, a woman wants to be able to bury her face in a man’s chest when she hugs him; Maybe she doesn’t want the top of her man’s head to be below her chin; Maybe she wants someone of greater substance so she feels “safe” when he holds her…

There are far more psychological reasons for a woman to want a “bigger” man than just cock size. And height doesn’t reflect on penis size; John Holmes wasn’t an extremely tall man; Long Dong Silver wasn’t either. Both had monster cocks.

I think you’re trying to justify why a guy 5′8″ or under should feel more masculine about themselves. There’s no reason to. Being a man isn’t about height, it’s about being able to step up to the plate and acting responsibly. It’s about doing what’s right instead of doing what’s recommended by others. It’s about protecting your family and your home, and being able to let your family take care of you when it’s their turn.

It’s hard, but the rewards are immense.

I almost died laughing when I read the description of the three-point stare! I cannot even begin to count how many times I’ve seen that one.

One of my favorite street moments was a drunk staggering up to me and asking “Are you really that tall?” (My answer? “Nope.”)

I’m six feet tall, and spent my twenties despairing because all the tall men seemed to like women who only came up to their knee-caps. Happily, I am now married to a man who’s two inches taller than I (though when I wear boots, we see eye to eye). As a couple, we’re quite striking, like punk-rock superheroes.

p.s. jeorg also gives me the creeps. Especially him listing a fifteen-year-old, for God’s sake.

One time I was meet tall girl for fun but being short I looked at her brest all night when we talk I cannot help but to look being at that height and she understand. Now we date all the time and she sits in a short chair and now looks at my chest. I think talls girl should give short guys a chance because we can be fun to.

Also because the other post is broken I wear silk boxers because my erections come quick and fast and some times its better to let them come without getting bound in side.

I’m 6′2″, I chat to Joerg frequently online, he’s not creepy, he’s very nice and he doesn’t pester the hell out of you if you’re tall and don’t find shorties attractive [which I don't]
I get harrassed a lot by shorties looking for a tall woman to satisfy their fetish interests, the block list on my IM is huge!
I tell shorties “I don’t date outwith my species”

Then sometime I ask girl if she is tall how her weather is where she is tall. She sometimes calls poiliceman for stalking charges but I tell her it normal to have unnatural fellings for tall girls when you admire them nicely. I even offer to give back her underware but she still much upset by me nude in her closet rubbing myself against her tall girl clothes. Lawyers say I should cry fetish but I still think it admiration for tallness. I hope judge is tall woman for me to admire. Also I like potatoes but not as much as tall girls. I think if I admired potatoes thou I would not have People Vs. me in cort. Mabey in jail I can find others who like tall girl too though I am short. mabey as short as potatoes HA! I will end now but send all pictures of nakeed potatoes no girls HA! send to me Charles at jail thank you.

I dont see what the big problem is. Not everybody likes the same thing. Some tall guys like short girls. Some short guys like tall girls. And so on. Just like some guys like fat girls and some dont. I am a short guy and like tall girls and am ok with the fact that not all women would return my affection. I dont see what the big deal is. Joerg’s site is good, but he always puts things in order from height. Like a 6′1 girl is not as good as a 6′2 girl. and 5′10 is at the bottom of the list. Personaly anything over 5′10 is the same. Im not going to leave a 6′0 girl for a 6′5 one. Looks arent everything. I dont feel a need to ask a women her height. Just that she is tall, it dosent mater to the inch. The thing that I dont like about the links on the http://www.tallwomen.org is the link to local newspapers. Look she is tall, she cant find clothes. Slow news day so you treat someone like a freak and put it on the internet for every one to see.

Charles, you got something wrong with ya bud. Might want to get your self looked at.

It’s comforting to know that there are a number of guys out there who love taller women. To tell u the truth, i was one of the girls who preferred guys being taller than the girl.
I met a guy from San Diego last Summer who is thinner and a little shorter than I am.
He is handsome thoughtful and very single. I too somwtimes feel like a freak for going after him.
He tells me that he Loves it when a lady knows what she wants and goes after it.
I am 6 foot in height. In my early 40’s and weigh 190.
If I were a man my weight would be terrific. I sense that guys only like the tall ladies who
stare themselves until they are rail thin.
I am average in looks and want to be in love with my one and only someday…
I date frequently but find that most guys see me as a friend not a full time relationship.
Any hope out there for those of us who are not built like a model in the magazines?
Waiting for Love from Mr. San Diego.
CathyAnn~

Thank you for posting this stuff. Personally, I am a short man. Extremely short man and I’ve always liked for girls to be taller. I don’t know why, but it’s just that simple comforting feeling you get when she’s taller. I haven’t dated any tall ladies at all. Very sad, I don’t know what’s wrong with the world. WHERE ON EARTH CAN I, A 6′ 11″ MAN, FIND A TALLER GIRL FOR CRYING OUT LOUD?!?!?!? PLEASE! SPEAK TO ME! I LOVE YOU TALL GURLS!!! P.S. Please be at least 7′ 3″ before replying k thx

It’s always something. Be happy with who you are. There are already enough good people being picked away at by useless insecurities. When I see someone getting picked on and not handling it very well, I jump in and steal the attention, shut it down. I’m not gay, but when I see a homophobe acting up, I act gay and have some fun. There will always be people who try to make a person feel inferior for whatever reason, turn it around, put it back where it came from. It doesn’t belong to you until you take it. I’m far from perfect, but I will live my life, my way.

When someone tries to give insecurity to you, put it back where it came from.